April 18, 2024

242: Content is More Important Than Relationships

242: Content is More Important Than Relationships
242: Content is More Important Than Relationships
The Mortgage Game
242: Content is More Important Than Relationships
YouTube podcast player badge
Apple Podcasts podcast player badge
Spotify podcast player badge
YouTube podcast player iconApple Podcasts podcast player iconSpotify podcast player icon

In this episode, I share why building digital real estate through content marketing is more beneficial than traditional relationship-building methods, and how it allows you to build trust with end consumers quicker and grow faster.

***

Visit www.iamryanwiley.com to stay up to date on all things Mortgage Game, learn more about Team Wiley, PLUS sign up for coaching, events, our newsletter, & more!

***

CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL

📸 Ryan Wiley's Instagram: @iamryanwiley

🎵 Ryan Wiley's TikTok: @iamryanwiley

🔗 Ryan Wiley's LinkedIn: @RyanWiley

👤 Ryan Wiley's Facebook: @RyanWiley

***

1
00:00:06,945 --> 00:00:12,929
that building a mortgage business,
a successful one, is like playing

2
00:00:12,929 --> 00:00:13,366
a game.

3
00:00:13,466 --> 00:00:14,843
There's winners, there's losers,

4
00:00:14,943 --> 00:00:16,530
there's certain things you try.

5
00:00:16,630 --> 00:00:18,067
Some of us are playing checkers

6
00:00:18,067 --> 00:00:20,093
while others are playing chess.

7
00:00:20,193 --> 00:00:22,291
I've had the ability to coach and

8
00:00:22,291 --> 00:00:23,893
mentor hundreds of mortgage
brokers.

9
00:00:23,893 --> 00:00:26,340
I myself built a very nice
business.

10
00:00:26,340 --> 00:00:29,698
So now I want to distill all that
information, all the things I've

11
00:00:29,598 --> 00:00:32,816
learned from that and bring it
directly to you in a simple to

12
00:00:32,816 --> 00:00:33,147
understand way.

13
00:00:33,147 --> 00:00:34,407
I hope you enjoy.

14
00:00:34,507 --> 00:00:38,624
right, welcome to the Mortgage
Game Podcast.

15
00:00:38,524 --> 00:00:41,125
West Coast Wiley in the house.

16
00:00:41,025 --> 00:00:42,980
Oh So I hold strong opinions

17
00:00:58,580 --> 00:00:58,640
You've heard that phrase I do good
common sense, man.

18
00:00:58,617 --> 00:00:58,640
loosely.

19
00:00:58,626 --> 00:00:58,640
before.

20
00:00:58,627 --> 00:00:58,640
good argument.

21
00:00:58,631 --> 00:01:02,958
I can be swayed to something else,

22
00:01:02,858 --> 00:01:04,373
right?
I don't have this all figured out,

23
00:01:04,274 --> 00:01:06,501
but there's certain things where
I'm like, nope, can't change my

24
00:01:06,501 --> 00:01:07,563
mind on that one.

25
00:01:07,663 --> 00:01:08,929
You can try, but it's not

26
00:01:08,929 --> 00:01:09,030
happening.

27
00:01:09,030 --> 00:01:09,739
I already know that.

28
00:01:09,839 --> 00:01:11,053
I already know there's certain
things.

29
00:01:10,953 --> 00:01:12,047
I'm like, nope, I don't believe
that.

30
00:01:12,047 --> 00:01:13,585
It's not part of my belief system.

31
00:01:13,472 --> 00:01:14,560
This is one of more important in

32
00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,527
your business, relationships or
content?

33
00:01:16,427 --> 00:01:24,214
What will allow you to have a
thriving mortgage business?

34
00:01:24,114 --> 00:01:28,111
You build awesome relationships or
awesome content.

35
00:01:28,111 --> 00:01:30,863
I'm here to tell you content,
content, content, content,

36
00:01:30,863 --> 00:01:31,167
content.

37
00:01:31,167 --> 00:01:33,717
Over and over again, a hundred

38
00:01:33,717 --> 00:01:37,477
times over, without a doubt, not
even close.

39
00:01:37,477 --> 00:01:41,321
It's like a baby fighting Mike
Tyson in the ring.

40
00:01:41,421 --> 00:01:42,222
Not even close.

41
00:01:42,322 --> 00:01:44,401
Now let me clarify some things

42
00:01:44,401 --> 00:01:46,848
here and then I'll back this up
with my reasoning.

43
00:01:46,848 --> 00:01:50,107
And this is hopefully the whole
thing here is to get you just

44
00:01:50,107 --> 00:01:51,794
thinking differently, right?
The world is moving fast.

45
00:01:51,794 --> 00:01:53,445
A lot of you listening here,
you're dinosaurs.

46
00:01:53,445 --> 00:01:56,358
You're dinosaurs in this business,
or at least in your marketing.

47
00:01:56,358 --> 00:01:57,534
And that's okay.

48
00:01:57,434 --> 00:01:59,833
And new people coming in, like you

49
00:01:59,833 --> 00:02:02,774
get it more.

50
00:02:02,774 --> 00:02:04,514
You're like the younger people

51
00:02:04,514 --> 00:02:05,155
coming in.

52
00:02:05,155 --> 00:02:07,720
You're like, yeah, that's, yeah,

53
00:02:07,820 --> 00:02:08,533
that makes sense.

54
00:02:08,533 --> 00:02:10,181
I mean, this is the world we're

55
00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:10,437
in.

56
00:02:10,437 --> 00:02:12,520
And then I'm watching my kids come

57
00:02:12,620 --> 00:02:14,846
up and I'm watching, you know,
kids a little older than them.

58
00:02:14,846 --> 00:02:16,838
And just like how everyone's, you
know, acting and what they're

59
00:02:16,838 --> 00:02:18,137
doing with their time and energy.

60
00:02:18,237 --> 00:02:19,003
And it's content, content,

61
00:02:19,003 --> 00:02:19,490
content, attention.

62
00:02:19,590 --> 00:02:20,656
People's attention is the number

63
00:02:20,756 --> 00:02:22,722
one currency in the world.

64
00:02:22,722 --> 00:02:23,534
It is.

65
00:02:23,534 --> 00:02:28,074
It's why you can be a TikToker or
a Instagrammer, whatever you call

66
00:02:27,975 --> 00:02:28,411
them.

67
00:02:28,411 --> 00:02:30,311
And you can be 14, make millions

68
00:02:30,311 --> 00:02:31,361
of dollars.

69
00:02:31,261 --> 00:02:33,160
It's not because you have good

70
00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:37,592
relationships, because you have
good content and then you get

71
00:02:37,592 --> 00:02:39,481
people content, and then you get
people's attention.

72
00:02:39,481 --> 00:02:41,153
And that's where the money is.

73
00:02:41,153 --> 00:02:43,263
And so my whole job, or my goal,

74
00:02:43,235 --> 00:02:45,259
my job goal with this podcast is
just to get you thinking

75
00:02:45,259 --> 00:02:45,604
differently.

76
00:02:45,704 --> 00:02:46,766
Get you going, yeah, right.

77
00:02:46,766 --> 00:02:49,363
You're Yeah, I need to put more
time and energy into that and less

78
00:02:49,363 --> 00:02:50,510
time and energy over here.

79
00:02:50,510 --> 00:02:52,873
Now, when I say content is way

80
00:02:52,973 --> 00:02:54,384
more important than relationships
in your business.

81
00:02:54,384 --> 00:02:56,520
Let me clarify, because some of
you are probably foaming at the

82
00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:57,436
mouth right now.

83
00:02:57,436 --> 00:02:58,705
I can't believe you're saying

84
00:02:58,705 --> 00:02:58,917
that.

85
00:02:58,917 --> 00:02:59,762
Relationships matter, Ryan.

86
00:02:59,762 --> 00:03:00,679
They matter.

87
00:03:00,679 --> 00:03:02,973
Yes, of course they do.

88
00:03:02,873 --> 00:03:03,191
Come on.

89
00:03:03,291 --> 00:03:04,911
I'm not talking about how happy

90
00:03:04,911 --> 00:03:05,875
you are.

91
00:03:05,875 --> 00:03:07,208
I'm not talking about the

92
00:03:07,108 --> 00:03:08,732
relationships you have with your
lenders.

93
00:03:08,832 --> 00:03:13,324
Those are very important with your
BDM, your BRM, your underwriters.

94
00:03:13,424 --> 00:03:15,491
I'm talking the front end stuff.

95
00:03:15,491 --> 00:03:17,657
The relationships you have to get

96
00:03:17,657 --> 00:03:18,744
leads for your business.

97
00:03:18,744 --> 00:03:20,244
Talking about that versus content.

98
00:03:20,344 --> 00:03:20,772
Okay.

99
00:03:20,672 --> 00:03:22,011
Not the relationships you have

100
00:03:22,011 --> 00:03:24,534
with your friends and family and
all that.

101
00:03:24,534 --> 00:03:26,260
I'm not talking about that.

102
00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:26,782
Okay.

103
00:03:26,782 --> 00:03:29,402
So let's just peel that out.

104
00:03:29,402 --> 00:03:32,800
There goes your whole argument.

105
00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,104
It's out the freaking window.

106
00:03:35,104 --> 00:03:36,013
I don't know.

107
00:03:36,013 --> 00:03:36,405
Or not.

108
00:03:36,396 --> 00:03:36,596
Right?

109
00:03:36,588 --> 00:03:38,344
And you carry on building your
relationships and having your

110
00:03:38,344 --> 00:03:40,223
business act as if you 2010.

111
00:03:40,223 --> 00:03:42,140
it's, know, And you can slowly

112
00:03:42,127 --> 00:03:43,676
just keep growing your business.

113
00:03:43,676 --> 00:03:49,680
Or you can focus on content and

114
00:03:49,940 --> 00:03:56,267
throw some gas on the fire.

115
00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:56,320
Right?

116
00:03:56,147 --> 00:03:56,443
And so here's my thoughts on this.

117
00:03:56,407 --> 00:03:58,340
You've got back in the day, let's

118
00:03:58,300 --> 00:04:03,099
just say I was going to jump you,
drop you in a city and I'm going

119
00:04:02,994 --> 00:04:07,441
to drop you in, let's say Calgary,
Alberta.

120
00:04:07,441 --> 00:04:08,686
You still live there by the way.

121
00:04:08,686 --> 00:04:09,048
Horrible hockey team.

122
00:04:09,048 --> 00:04:09,811
I liked the city though.

123
00:04:09,811 --> 00:04:10,454
15 years I lived there.

124
00:04:10,514 --> 00:04:11,660
So went to school there, high
school and one year university

125
00:04:11,660 --> 00:04:15,304
then dropped out not my jam went
to play pool instead go figure uh

126
00:04:15,404 --> 00:04:20,158
so you're learning stuff about me
so i drop you in calgary we have

127
00:04:20,257 --> 00:04:23,185
no friends or family or anything
no call no relationships nothing

128
00:04:23,185 --> 00:04:27,735
you just get dropped there with a
phone and a laptop it's like go

129
00:04:27,735 --> 00:04:31,551
crush mortgages put money in the
bank account uh 100 commission go

130
00:04:31,551 --> 00:04:34,237
okay well you go build
relationships and i'll go and you

131
00:04:34,237 --> 00:04:37,100
can't do both Crush mortgages, put
money in the bank account, 100%

132
00:04:37,100 --> 00:04:37,685
commission, go.

133
00:04:37,685 --> 00:04:38,987
Okay, you go well, build

134
00:04:38,987 --> 00:04:40,940
relationships and you can't do
both.

135
00:04:40,940 --> 00:04:43,500
In a perfect you get world, to do
both things.

136
00:04:43,437 --> 00:04:43,911
But we're not in a perfect world.

137
00:04:43,889 --> 00:04:44,295
A perfect you would call world,

138
00:04:44,163 --> 00:04:44,692
your freaking database four times
a year.

139
00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:44,638
Nobody does.

140
00:04:44,629 --> 00:04:49,492
That's a perfect way to run a

141
00:04:49,473 --> 00:04:49,691
mortgage business.

142
00:04:49,493 --> 00:04:49,860
On top of many other things, but

143
00:04:52,580 --> 00:04:52,856
that would be the thing to do.

144
00:04:52,826 --> 00:04:52,960
But we don't.

145
00:04:54,660 --> 00:04:55,192
So we're in a messy world.

146
00:04:55,158 --> 00:04:58,926
Life is messy.

147
00:04:58,807 --> 00:05:00,220
So, and we tend to take the path
of least resistance and we're lazy

148
00:05:02,260 --> 00:05:02,478
and enter excuse here.

149
00:05:02,464 --> 00:05:05,799
So I'm going to say you have to

150
00:05:05,799 --> 00:05:07,243
pick one content or relationships.

151
00:05:07,243 --> 00:05:09,290
So you go run out and you go knock

152
00:05:09,190 --> 00:05:11,550
on real estate office doors and
try to meet mortgage brokers.

153
00:05:11,450 --> 00:05:14,668
And you go, I don't even know who
you would build relationships

154
00:05:14,668 --> 00:05:16,147
with, to be honest.

155
00:05:16,147 --> 00:05:18,409
I don't know where you would go

156
00:05:18,409 --> 00:05:19,753
and who you'd talk to.

157
00:05:19,753 --> 00:05:22,307
You go join B&I groups and you go

158
00:05:22,307 --> 00:05:25,429
to Toastmasters and you join the
Chamber of Commerce and you try to

159
00:05:25,429 --> 00:05:27,929
build relationships with centers
of influence and financial, you do

160
00:05:27,891 --> 00:05:28,091
that.

161
00:05:28,054 --> 00:05:29,596
And I'm going to go over here, and

162
00:05:29,596 --> 00:05:33,271
I'm going to create content, and
I'm going to put it on Facebook,

163
00:05:33,271 --> 00:05:36,319
Instagram, LinkedIn, just those
three, I'm going to do that.

164
00:05:36,319 --> 00:05:41,780
And I'm going to build, use that
same content for my email

165
00:05:41,780 --> 00:05:45,642
marketing, when I eventually get
email addresses from people,

166
00:05:45,642 --> 00:05:48,513
because I'm going to ask them for
email addresses through DMS.

167
00:05:48,513 --> 00:05:51,907
And I'm going to start contacting
people through I'm going to ask

168
00:05:51,907 --> 00:05:53,163
them for email addresses through
DMs.

169
00:05:53,163 --> 00:05:56,019
social, And I'm going to start
contacting people through social.

170
00:05:56,019 --> 00:05:58,186
I'm going to start putting it out
on social.

171
00:05:58,186 --> 00:06:01,433
And I'm going to start DMing the
people who are interested and who

172
00:06:01,433 --> 00:06:02,682
are looking at my stuff.

173
00:06:02,682 --> 00:06:04,460
Who do you think is going to have

174
00:06:04,980 --> 00:06:05,000
a half million dollars in the bank
faster?

175
00:06:04,987 --> 00:06:05,000
That's not even close.

176
00:06:04,992 --> 00:06:05,000
It's going to be me with the

177
00:06:05,089 --> 00:06:05,000
content.

178
00:06:07,620 --> 00:06:07,720
You're going to be out there

179
00:06:07,678 --> 00:06:09,249
hobnobbing it, walking around,
shaking hands, kissing babies,

180
00:06:09,093 --> 00:06:09,280
building these relationships for
whatever reason.

181
00:06:10,500 --> 00:06:10,869
I have no idea.

182
00:06:10,869 --> 00:06:11,578
I actually don't even know what

183
00:06:11,578 --> 00:06:12,373
you're doing out there, to be
honest.

184
00:06:12,373 --> 00:06:14,657
Those other groups were, here's my
thoughts on this.

185
00:06:14,657 --> 00:06:18,949
You can go build a relationship
with a broker owner of a real

186
00:06:18,949 --> 00:06:19,760
estate brokerage.

187
00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:21,251
Hey, I have a hundred agents.

188
00:06:21,251 --> 00:06:22,943
Get to come in and chat.

189
00:06:22,943 --> 00:06:23,160
Great.

190
00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:24,460
That's awesome, Tom.

191
00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:32,033
I have a hundred agents get to

192
00:06:32,033 --> 00:06:33,090
come in and That's Tom.

193
00:06:32,972 --> 00:06:33,022
brokerage.

194
00:06:32,998 --> 00:06:33,155
Hey, chat.

195
00:06:33,255 --> 00:06:33,455
Great.

196
00:06:33,285 --> 00:06:34,059
awesome, I'm coming You come in.

197
00:06:33,963 --> 00:06:34,163
Boom.

198
00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:34,972
you in, you start present, talking
to realtors.

199
00:06:34,903 --> 00:06:35,233
Remember, Okay.

200
00:06:35,190 --> 00:06:37,069
or they're under someone at a

201
00:06:36,969 --> 00:06:37,127
brokerage.

202
00:06:37,127 --> 00:06:38,546
All you've gotten is they've given

203
00:06:38,546 --> 00:06:40,995
you a platform, a 15, 20 minute
window where top producers don't

204
00:06:40,995 --> 00:06:42,070
really even show up.

205
00:06:42,070 --> 00:06:43,126
It's more everyone else who's

206
00:06:43,126 --> 00:06:44,540
struggling shows up and they come
to listen to you talk.

207
00:06:44,508 --> 00:06:44,540
And then you still have to go
build the relationships.

208
00:06:44,621 --> 00:06:51,046
Each of those people have their
own mortgage people.

209
00:06:50,854 --> 00:06:51,220
Just because Tom gave you a
platform doesn't mean agent ABCD

210
00:07:01,620 --> 00:07:02,975
under the brokerage or under the
team, right?

211
00:07:02,875 --> 00:07:04,476
If you have a team of five, I have
five agents.

212
00:07:04,563 --> 00:07:05,386
It doesn't mean they use you.

213
00:07:05,386 --> 00:07:06,697
They're not forced to use you.

214
00:07:06,597 --> 00:07:08,659
They can use whoever they want.

215
00:07:08,659 --> 00:07:09,719
They're empowered to go build

216
00:07:09,719 --> 00:07:11,865
their own relationships and their
own business.

217
00:07:11,865 --> 00:07:12,858
So you're no further along.

218
00:07:12,858 --> 00:07:14,513
And while you're doing that, I'm,

219
00:07:14,513 --> 00:07:18,025
as they say, sliding into the DMs.

220
00:07:17,925 --> 00:07:19,795
I'm coming over here.

221
00:07:19,795 --> 00:07:23,120
I've already green screened some
listings for you.

222
00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,587
I've already show you I'm going to
run a webinar showing you how to

223
00:07:26,576 --> 00:07:27,344
get business from your database.

224
00:07:27,433 --> 00:07:28,609
And I've already been talking to

225
00:07:28,709 --> 00:07:30,475
you with videos and voice memos
and texts through your DMs.

226
00:07:30,475 --> 00:07:31,994
We already have a relationship.

227
00:07:31,994 --> 00:07:33,798
And then they just happen to go in

228
00:07:33,798 --> 00:07:36,455
and listen to you talk for 20, 30
minutes.

229
00:07:36,455 --> 00:07:39,070
And I've already got a
relationship built over here,

230
00:07:38,970 --> 00:07:40,459
right?
Just because you have a

231
00:07:40,459 --> 00:07:44,232
relationship with the mothership
does not equal money in your bank

232
00:07:44,332 --> 00:07:44,611
account.

233
00:07:44,511 --> 00:07:46,412
It just gives you a platform.

234
00:07:46,412 --> 00:07:49,961
What do you do with the platform?
Most brokers don't even know what

235
00:07:49,961 --> 00:07:52,241
to do with that platform.

236
00:07:52,241 --> 00:07:52,821
Same thing.

237
00:07:52,821 --> 00:07:55,980
If you're in a relationship with a
financial advisor, sure, they have

238
00:07:55,980 --> 00:07:58,399
certain clients and they, but
those clients still have to agree

239
00:07:58,399 --> 00:08:00,107
to work with you, right?
They still have to have a

240
00:08:00,007 --> 00:08:01,076
relationship with you.

241
00:08:01,076 --> 00:08:03,707
It's a referral, but it doesn't

242
00:08:03,707 --> 00:08:05,844
mean it's a done deal.

243
00:08:05,844 --> 00:08:07,835
Whereas I'm going to be marketing

244
00:08:07,835 --> 00:08:11,443
to the direct consumer through my
content directly, and I'm going to

245
00:08:11,443 --> 00:08:12,080
build up trust.

246
00:08:12,180 --> 00:08:14,354
They don't know you from a hole in

247
00:08:14,354 --> 00:08:15,048
the ground.

248
00:08:15,048 --> 00:08:16,375
They just said, their realtor said

249
00:08:16,375 --> 00:08:17,942
to talk to you.

250
00:08:18,042 --> 00:08:19,248
account, their financial advisor,

251
00:08:19,248 --> 00:08:20,637
who they trust.

252
00:08:20,637 --> 00:08:22,207
Sure, that's cool.

253
00:08:22,207 --> 00:08:25,276
Maybe not realtors as much, but
sure, you're from FAA.

254
00:08:25,276 --> 00:08:26,077
That's fine.

255
00:08:26,077 --> 00:08:27,889
But they still have to meet you

256
00:08:27,789 --> 00:08:29,798
and trust and like build trust
with you.

257
00:08:29,798 --> 00:08:31,729
Well, I'm sleeping over here.

258
00:08:31,829 --> 00:08:33,943
My content's out there building up

259
00:08:33,943 --> 00:08:35,717
trust and awareness and grabbing
people's attention.

260
00:08:35,717 --> 00:08:39,121
And then when I put in certain
strategies in there, it's

261
00:08:39,121 --> 00:08:40,542
collecting email addresses for me.

262
00:08:40,542 --> 00:08:41,885
And this is building that up while

263
00:08:41,885 --> 00:08:42,121
I sleep.

264
00:08:42,116 --> 00:08:42,957
While you sleep, your

265
00:08:42,857 --> 00:08:43,808
relationships aren't doing you
anything.

266
00:08:43,808 --> 00:08:45,040
Hopefully there's like a, huh,
that's interesting.

267
00:08:47,234 --> 00:08:47,641
Yeah.

268
00:08:47,541 --> 00:08:47,795
Right.

269
00:08:47,795 --> 00:08:48,253
Hmm.

270
00:08:48,353 --> 00:08:50,180
Your time, the best bang for your

271
00:08:50,780 --> 00:08:53,520
buck highest and best use real
estate term we know that is not

272
00:08:53,540 --> 00:08:55,693
building relationships those
relationships only go so far you

273
00:08:55,693 --> 00:08:59,832
move no relationship that person
quits no relationship that person

274
00:08:59,832 --> 00:09:02,537
dies no relationship there's a
personality conflict no

275
00:09:02,537 --> 00:09:03,746
relationship something happens no
relationship.

276
00:09:03,746 --> 00:09:06,300
There's a personality conflict, no
relationship.

277
00:09:07,100 --> 00:09:07,719
Something happens, no
relationship.

278
00:09:07,719 --> 00:09:08,057
Content lives forever.

279
00:09:08,057 --> 00:09:09,565
It's digital real estate.

280
00:09:09,465 --> 00:09:11,042
You're building digital real
estate.

281
00:09:11,042 --> 00:09:14,537
And the cool part is if you know
what the hell you're doing, you

282
00:09:14,637 --> 00:09:20,360
get to take that digital real
estate and repurpose it into your

283
00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:25,847
email marketing and build a
machine there, which you hear me

284
00:09:25,847 --> 00:09:29,009
talk about all the time, which we
show people do in our

285
00:09:29,009 --> 00:09:30,832
accountability groups and inside
Strategy Hub, right?

286
00:09:30,832 --> 00:09:33,922
This podcast brought to so good.

287
00:09:33,922 --> 00:09:34,418
Starbucks today.

288
00:09:34,418 --> 00:09:37,254
Been making them at home lately.

289
00:09:37,254 --> 00:09:37,426
Nespresso.

290
00:09:37,426 --> 00:09:38,457
Nespresso.

291
00:09:38,457 --> 00:09:38,801
Starbucks.

292
00:09:38,801 --> 00:09:40,457
It's a weekend right now.

293
00:09:40,457 --> 00:09:42,088
Okay, so back to like content

294
00:09:42,088 --> 00:09:42,430
versus relationships.

295
00:09:42,530 --> 00:09:44,896
And so I see just so many people

296
00:09:44,896 --> 00:09:48,625
out there, you know, they're
getting dressed up, they're going

297
00:09:48,725 --> 00:09:51,289
out, they're belly to belly,
they're meeting people.

298
00:09:51,289 --> 00:09:51,674
That's fine.

299
00:09:51,674 --> 00:09:51,893
Sure.

300
00:09:51,893 --> 00:09:52,882
Can you build a business around
that?

301
00:09:52,882 --> 00:09:53,102
Sure.

302
00:09:53,102 --> 00:09:54,640
That's how it wasn't back in the

303
00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,360
that's how it was back Sure, in
the day.

304
00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:57,709
day.

305
00:09:57,709 --> 00:09:58,337
Absolutely.

306
00:09:58,337 --> 00:09:58,546
Absolutely.

307
00:09:58,546 --> 00:10:00,409
But it's 2024, But it's 2024,

308
00:10:00,409 --> 00:10:02,147
right?
Then it's going to be five years

309
00:10:02,047 --> 00:10:03,559
2025, from it's going now, to be
2030.

310
00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,386
That stuff's going away.

311
00:10:05,386 --> 00:10:08,673
It's not as important as you

312
00:10:08,673 --> 00:10:08,886
think.

313
00:10:12,966 --> 00:10:13,820
It's not.

314
00:10:14,100 --> 00:10:14,800
It's not.

315
00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:15,313
It's not.

316
00:10:15,313 --> 00:10:15,548
It's not.

317
00:10:15,548 --> 00:10:21,940
You having a kick-ass Instagram

318
00:10:22,100 --> 00:10:25,621
page that engages people, that
shows you your personality and you

319
00:10:25,621 --> 00:10:29,347
as an expert and gives them
opportunity and you're asking them

320
00:10:29,347 --> 00:10:32,532
if they need help, that will
outperform any relationship you

321
00:10:32,432 --> 00:10:34,640
have on the lead gen side.

322
00:10:34,740 --> 00:10:35,214
100%.

323
00:10:35,114 --> 00:10:38,270
Remember, I'm not talking about
lenders, BDMs behind.

324
00:10:38,270 --> 00:10:38,980
Yeah, over here.

325
00:10:38,980 --> 00:10:40,931
Not talking about that.

326
00:10:40,831 --> 00:10:41,680
That's very important.

327
00:10:41,680 --> 00:10:42,778
Will be less important in the

328
00:10:42,741 --> 00:10:44,120
future if you've heard my other
podcasts, but we're not talking

329
00:10:43,994 --> 00:10:44,920
about That's that.

330
00:10:46,260 --> 00:10:46,543
very important.

331
00:10:46,554 --> 00:10:49,887
Will be less important in the If
future.

332
00:10:49,901 --> 00:10:50,220
you've heard my other podcasts,
but we're not talking about that

333
00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:52,118
right now.

334
00:10:52,118 --> 00:10:54,921
So you can go build these

335
00:10:54,883 --> 00:10:57,580
platforms and with putting all
your energy in there, or you can

336
00:11:04,660 --> 00:11:05,892
go and, you know, walk around and
shake hands and kiss babies and

337
00:11:05,892 --> 00:11:06,579
hold these events and do this and
do that.

338
00:11:06,579 --> 00:11:06,933
That's great.

339
00:11:06,933 --> 00:11:09,207
But highest and best use of your

340
00:11:09,207 --> 00:11:10,028
time is content.

341
00:11:10,028 --> 00:11:11,102
It always is.

342
00:11:11,102 --> 00:11:13,144
It's the leverage on top of
leverage.

343
00:11:13,144 --> 00:11:18,333
You get to leverage you sitting at
home, crushing out a 20 minute

344
00:11:18,233 --> 00:11:21,970
video, which is really two
minutes, but a bunch of takes,

345
00:11:21,970 --> 00:11:23,778
some scripting, some editing,
throwing that out to the universe,

346
00:11:23,649 --> 00:11:24,502
getting thousands of eyeballs on
it forever with calls to actions,

347
00:11:24,358 --> 00:11:24,898
and then just doing it again.

348
00:11:24,826 --> 00:11:25,711
And you get to do that from home

349
00:11:25,811 --> 00:11:27,227
or wherever you want.

350
00:11:27,227 --> 00:11:29,501
There's no better use of your 20

351
00:11:29,501 --> 00:11:30,259
minute, half hour.

352
00:11:30,259 --> 00:11:32,603
So I always talk about content

353
00:11:32,603 --> 00:11:32,905
days.

354
00:11:32,905 --> 00:11:34,339
I have a content day.

355
00:11:34,339 --> 00:11:36,376
Content day is like, it feeds your
business.

356
00:11:36,376 --> 00:11:37,906
It should feed your business.

357
00:11:37,906 --> 00:11:39,989
This should be the most important

358
00:11:39,989 --> 00:11:42,908
day of the month for you is your
content day.

359
00:11:42,908 --> 00:11:44,115
It's the lifeline of your
business.

360
00:11:44,115 --> 00:11:47,789
So if you have a content day,
let's just call it three hours.

361
00:11:47,889 --> 00:11:51,907
You have a three hour content day
where you're making your emails

362
00:11:51,907 --> 00:11:52,511
for your drip.

363
00:11:52,611 --> 00:11:54,464
You're making your videos for your

364
00:11:54,364 --> 00:11:54,549
platforms.

365
00:11:54,549 --> 00:11:55,661
You're making your static posts.

366
00:11:55,761 --> 00:11:58,041
You're making your, right.

367
00:11:58,041 --> 00:12:00,005
You're just doing all the stuff

368
00:12:00,005 --> 00:12:02,740
you're doing for your social and
your email marketing.

369
00:12:02,740 --> 00:12:04,106
There is no better.

370
00:12:04,106 --> 00:12:06,356
This is the part like I just, I

371
00:12:06,356 --> 00:12:10,105
want to say it 100 times in a row.

372
00:12:10,105 --> 00:12:12,846
I might just do that right now.

373
00:12:12,746 --> 00:12:15,752
I might just say it for 100 times.

374
00:12:15,852 --> 00:12:17,616
So you might want to just fast

375
00:12:17,616 --> 00:12:17,809
forward.

376
00:12:17,809 --> 00:12:19,674
There is no better use of your

377
00:12:19,674 --> 00:12:21,774
time for those three hours.

378
00:12:21,774 --> 00:12:24,141
There is no better use of your

379
00:12:24,141 --> 00:12:25,446
time for those three hours.

380
00:12:25,446 --> 00:12:26,997
There is no better.

381
00:12:26,997 --> 00:12:29,282
I'm not going to do it.

382
00:12:29,282 --> 00:12:29,690
I'm kidding.

383
00:12:29,690 --> 00:12:31,404
But you get the point.

384
00:12:31,404 --> 00:12:33,272
Like I want to hammer this home.

385
00:12:33,272 --> 00:12:36,019
And then a lot of you say, I don't
like content.

386
00:12:36,019 --> 00:12:39,602
I don't want, I don't know what
to, yeah, we'll figure it out.

387
00:12:39,602 --> 00:12:40,581
Figure it out.

388
00:12:40,481 --> 00:12:42,934
You have to figure it out or you

389
00:12:42,934 --> 00:12:43,120
die.

390
00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,914
You have to evolve your business

391
00:12:44,914 --> 00:12:46,023
or you die.

392
00:12:46,123 --> 00:12:49,613
Or you just have less money in the

393
00:12:49,613 --> 00:12:50,433
bank account.

394
00:12:50,433 --> 00:12:52,279
Maybe you don't die, but it's a

395
00:12:52,279 --> 00:12:53,100
painful death.

396
00:12:53,100 --> 00:12:54,156
It's like death by a thousand

397
00:12:54,156 --> 00:12:54,529
paper cuts.

398
00:12:54,529 --> 00:12:55,896
The goal is to make money.

399
00:12:55,896 --> 00:12:56,866
And I get it.

400
00:12:56,766 --> 00:12:57,760
We're changing lives and we're

401
00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:58,096
helping.

402
00:12:58,096 --> 00:12:59,861
And I get all that.

403
00:12:59,861 --> 00:13:02,550
But you didn't get into this
business for that.

404
00:13:02,650 --> 00:13:06,346
You got into it because you
thought, hey, I can go make a

405
00:13:06,446 --> 00:13:08,576
bunch of money and have a good
work-life balance, which is funny

406
00:13:08,476 --> 00:13:11,460
to say that because a lot of us
don't.

407
00:13:11,458 --> 00:13:13,343
And, you know, live a good life
and blah, blah, blah, and have

408
00:13:13,443 --> 00:13:15,603
some freedom and be my own boss
and all that stuff.

409
00:13:15,603 --> 00:13:17,954
But without the money, there's no
anything.

410
00:13:17,954 --> 00:13:19,784
And the byproduct is you're
helping people.

411
00:13:19,784 --> 00:13:21,264
So let's just own it.

412
00:13:21,264 --> 00:13:23,315
Let's say I want to make money.

413
00:13:23,315 --> 00:13:25,100
The byproduct is you're helping
people.

414
00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:25,980
So let's just own it.

415
00:13:25,946 --> 00:13:27,531
Let's say I want to make money.

416
00:13:27,531 --> 00:13:30,384
The byproduct is I help a lot of
people.

417
00:13:30,384 --> 00:13:30,607
Cool.

418
00:13:30,607 --> 00:13:30,886
Awesome.

419
00:13:30,886 --> 00:13:31,781
Warm hugs for everybody.

420
00:13:31,781 --> 00:13:34,849
But it's money, right?

421
00:13:34,849 --> 00:13:37,785
The money which helps you, your
family, buy better food, healthier

422
00:13:37,785 --> 00:13:40,320
food, get private health care, go
on better vacations, go on more

423
00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,721
vacations, right?
Impact the quality of your life

424
00:13:41,721 --> 00:13:43,947
and those around you, help out
family members and friends who

425
00:13:43,947 --> 00:13:45,451
need help, help out other people
who need help.

426
00:13:45,451 --> 00:13:48,788
It all stems off of money, right?
So please, let's not, I'm not this

427
00:13:48,788 --> 00:13:50,567
evil money person, by the way.

428
00:13:50,567 --> 00:13:52,790
I'm like, I share a lot of stuff.

429
00:13:52,790 --> 00:13:54,660
I give back a lot of stuff.

430
00:13:54,660 --> 00:13:55,780
I'm not like money.

431
00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:59,460
I wake up in money, money, money,
money, money, money.

432
00:13:59,460 --> 00:14:00,492
That's not me.

433
00:14:00,492 --> 00:14:01,664
That's the farthest thing from me.

434
00:14:01,608 --> 00:14:02,832
If you know me, I don't spend
money on fancy things.

435
00:14:02,832 --> 00:14:04,048
That's not to show off.

436
00:14:03,948 --> 00:14:04,452
That's not my jam.

437
00:14:04,552 --> 00:14:04,898
I don't do that.

438
00:14:04,884 --> 00:14:07,717
But I'm just trying to get across

439
00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:09,640
the point to you that money is
very important.

440
00:14:10,780 --> 00:14:13,153
Like it's not an evil thing.

441
00:14:13,253 --> 00:14:16,037
The people who think it's evil are

442
00:14:15,937 --> 00:14:18,721
typically the people who don't
have it.

443
00:14:18,821 --> 00:14:19,949
That's so true.

444
00:14:19,949 --> 00:14:23,156
Because I used to not have money.

445
00:14:23,156 --> 00:14:27,654
And I was like, I don't need money
to be happy.

446
00:14:27,654 --> 00:14:30,495
And you get money and you're like,
oh, this is better.

447
00:14:30,495 --> 00:14:31,306
I like this.

448
00:14:31,206 --> 00:14:32,728
This is way better.

449
00:14:32,728 --> 00:14:35,248
I can still, I'm still a good
person.

450
00:14:35,248 --> 00:14:38,572
I can help more people with money.

451
00:14:38,472 --> 00:14:41,293
So back to why we're doing this,

452
00:14:41,293 --> 00:14:42,905
doing it to earn money.

453
00:14:42,905 --> 00:14:44,718
And so your business needs the

454
00:14:44,718 --> 00:14:45,625
content to thrive.

455
00:14:45,625 --> 00:14:48,192
Back in the day, there was no

456
00:14:48,092 --> 00:14:50,484
social media, or if there was, it
was very minimal.

457
00:14:50,484 --> 00:14:51,541
I can't even remember.

458
00:14:51,441 --> 00:14:53,658
This podcast is brought to And

459
00:14:53,558 --> 00:14:54,024
Americano again.

460
00:14:54,024 --> 00:14:54,396
Okay.

461
00:14:54,496 --> 00:14:58,308
So, but back in the day, it was,
there wasn't social.

462
00:14:58,308 --> 00:14:59,968
So yeah, relationships did matter.

463
00:14:59,968 --> 00:15:01,769
It was, but it was the same old

464
00:15:01,769 --> 00:15:02,490
school thing.

465
00:15:02,490 --> 00:15:03,859
Go make relationships with the

466
00:15:03,859 --> 00:15:05,300
owner of a real estate shop.

467
00:15:05,300 --> 00:15:07,299
Try to get in.

468
00:15:07,299 --> 00:15:08,911
Try to get access to agents.

469
00:15:08,911 --> 00:15:09,985
Try to get in.

470
00:15:09,985 --> 00:15:13,964
Try to maybe get a contract
somewhere with a moving company or

471
00:15:13,964 --> 00:15:16,797
something, try to get in with
builders and developers, and then

472
00:15:16,697 --> 00:15:19,233
try to get relationships with
center of influences and get...

473
00:15:19,233 --> 00:15:19,461
Sure.

474
00:15:19,461 --> 00:15:21,438
But this is the point everyone's

475
00:15:21,438 --> 00:15:21,590
missing.

476
00:15:21,690 --> 00:15:23,187
go and make those relationships.

477
00:15:23,187 --> 00:15:23,568
You still...

478
00:15:23,568 --> 00:15:25,933
The end user is the one who's

479
00:15:25,933 --> 00:15:27,080
going to use you.

480
00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,370
The end, the consumer, it's the

481
00:15:29,370 --> 00:15:32,979
person who's agreeing to work with
you and how you get paid your

482
00:15:32,979 --> 00:15:34,489
$5,000 for your file.

483
00:15:34,489 --> 00:15:37,156
So just because you have

484
00:15:37,156 --> 00:15:39,430
relationship with the mothership,
the team lead, the broker owner,

485
00:15:39,430 --> 00:15:41,864
the FA, the whoever, whoever,
whoever, does not mean the end

486
00:15:41,774 --> 00:15:49,420
user uses you, right?
So now you're going out and

487
00:15:53,060 --> 00:15:54,898
building all these relationships
so that you get introductions, so

488
00:15:54,776 --> 00:15:56,793
then you can go build
relationships user.

489
00:15:56,793 --> 00:15:59,380
Why not just skip that part?
Why not skip the middle man, the

490
00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,293
refer, and go right to the end
person and build up the trust

491
00:16:02,293 --> 00:16:04,427
there right away that you're going
to have to do anyways.

492
00:16:04,427 --> 00:16:08,860
You're going to have to build that
at some point.

493
00:16:08,732 --> 00:16:13,603
Why not do that with your content?
And you're like, why don't I do

494
00:16:13,603 --> 00:16:14,261
both right?
Yeah, I get it.

495
00:16:14,261 --> 00:16:15,904
We're not talking about that
because everyone has a plan like

496
00:16:15,741 --> 00:16:15,823
that.

497
00:16:15,823 --> 00:16:16,481
I'm going to do social.

498
00:16:16,481 --> 00:16:20,394
I'm going to do that.

499
00:16:20,494 --> 00:16:23,951
And I'm going to have, I'm going

500
00:16:23,951 --> 00:16:25,489
to be in iGroups.

501
00:16:25,489 --> 00:16:25,969
I'm there.

502
00:16:26,069 --> 00:16:28,959
And I'm going to prospect through
DMs.

503
00:16:28,959 --> 00:16:30,497
I'm going to call.

504
00:16:30,497 --> 00:16:31,615
Yeah, no one does anything.

505
00:16:31,615 --> 00:16:32,034
They don't.

506
00:16:32,034 --> 00:16:34,972
99% of us do like very little of

507
00:16:34,972 --> 00:16:35,236
that.

508
00:16:35,236 --> 00:16:35,698
Right?

509
00:16:35,698 --> 00:16:41,618
So I'm going, what's the thing you
can focus on the most that'll have

510
00:16:41,718 --> 00:16:46,073
the quickest amount of impact on
your business and long-term,

511
00:16:46,073 --> 00:16:48,895
short-term, long-term, and put
money in your bank account.

512
00:16:48,895 --> 00:16:53,350
It's a lot more the people who are
on social and you go look at their

513
00:16:53,350 --> 00:17:03,609
stuff and you see their posts and
you see they're engaged and you

514
00:17:03,609 --> 00:17:08,104
say, do you think they're doing if
they weren't a mortgage broker,

515
00:17:08,104 --> 00:17:09,904
they would be doing all that
stuff?

516
00:17:09,904 --> 00:17:12,180
Like if they didn't have some,
like, let's just say they won the

517
00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,538
lottery and they said, I'm done
being a mortgage broker now.

518
00:17:14,637 --> 00:17:16,164
Do you think they would still be
posting?

519
00:17:16,164 --> 00:17:17,727
It wouldn't be talking about
mortgages.

520
00:17:17,727 --> 00:17:19,694
Do you think they'd still be
posting all the stuff and sharing

521
00:17:19,694 --> 00:17:21,248
things?
Hell no. Most people wouldn't,

522
00:17:21,248 --> 00:17:22,295
right?
They're doing it because it works.

523
00:17:22,295 --> 00:17:23,277
I always go to that.

524
00:17:23,277 --> 00:17:24,155
Like the blueprint's laying in

525
00:17:24,155 --> 00:17:25,085
front of all of us.

526
00:17:25,085 --> 00:17:25,653
Ah, it doesn't work.

527
00:17:25,752 --> 00:17:28,285
There are people on social media
in the mortgage industry where

528
00:17:28,185 --> 00:17:29,942
majority of their business comes
from social media.

529
00:17:29,942 --> 00:17:32,126
And that's why they continue to do
it.

530
00:17:32,126 --> 00:17:37,036
If you see someone that has been
at this for over a year, they are

531
00:17:37,036 --> 00:17:37,890
winning on social media.

532
00:17:37,890 --> 00:17:39,600
They've given you the blueprint.

533
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,556
It's right in front of you, plain
as day.

534
00:17:42,556 --> 00:17:47,964
What you don't see is what they're
doing on the back end through DMs.

535
00:17:51,198 --> 00:17:54,265
But what I am going to tell you is
that the good news is they're not

536
00:17:54,265 --> 00:17:54,781
doing a lot.

537
00:17:54,778 --> 00:17:55,804
I know this for a fact.

538
00:17:55,804 --> 00:18:02,007
Very, very small percentage of
people actually crush all the

539
00:18:02,007 --> 00:18:04,860
content and then have a strong DM
prospecting game.

540
00:18:04,860 --> 00:18:05,334
They don't.

541
00:18:05,334 --> 00:18:07,931
Or a strong email game.

542
00:18:07,931 --> 00:18:08,848
They don't.

543
00:18:08,848 --> 00:18:10,017
Big opportunity here.

544
00:18:10,017 --> 00:18:12,920
But from the front end, the
content drives everything.

545
00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:13,963
I'm living proof of this.

546
00:18:13,963 --> 00:18:16,378
A year ago, I had no social media.

547
00:18:16,378 --> 00:18:18,519
This podcast is brought to ago, I
had no social media.

548
00:18:18,519 --> 00:18:22,194
And I said, well, well i don't
like social but it's where my

549
00:18:22,194 --> 00:18:26,088
avatar my avatar mortgage brokers
you you listening hopefully you're

550
00:18:26,088 --> 00:18:29,705
a mortgage broker if you're not i
don't know why you're listening

551
00:18:29,705 --> 00:18:33,197
unless you're my family which i
still once again i don't know why

552
00:18:33,197 --> 00:18:36,330
you're listening uh i go that's
where my avatars are.

553
00:18:36,330 --> 00:18:38,280
They're hanging out on Instagram.

554
00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,762
They're listening to podcasts.

555
00:18:39,762 --> 00:18:41,400
They're in Facebook groups.

556
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,116
They're I'm going like, to go get

557
00:18:43,116 --> 00:18:44,988
their emails and mark to them
through there.

558
00:18:44,988 --> 00:18:45,768
They're on Facebook.

559
00:18:45,768 --> 00:18:46,704
They're on LinkedIn.

560
00:18:46,704 --> 00:18:49,540
Like this is where my avatar is.

561
00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:50,816
So I have to go there.

562
00:18:50,693 --> 00:18:52,058
I have to go where they are.

563
00:18:52,058 --> 00:18:54,240
If I like it or not, I have to go

564
00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:54,915
where they are.

565
00:18:54,915 --> 00:18:55,687
Same mentality for you.

566
00:18:55,687 --> 00:18:57,943
So I said, well, I'm going to go
all in on social.

567
00:18:57,943 --> 00:19:01,293
And I haven't even like went all
in, all in.

568
00:19:01,293 --> 00:19:02,706
I'm like all in.

569
00:19:02,706 --> 00:19:04,734
I still have other gears to get

570
00:19:04,734 --> 00:19:06,616
to, which we will get to.

571
00:19:06,516 --> 00:19:07,684
You'll see where there's other

572
00:19:07,684 --> 00:19:08,398
things coming.

573
00:19:08,298 --> 00:19:09,773
But I went there.

574
00:19:09,773 --> 00:19:11,665
I'm probably a year in, maybe even
less.

575
00:19:11,665 --> 00:19:13,192
10 months, 11 months.

576
00:19:13,192 --> 00:19:14,311
Actually, we're not even.

577
00:19:14,211 --> 00:19:16,022
I think we started in May last
year.

578
00:19:16,122 --> 00:19:18,547
So we're coming up on it.

579
00:19:23,544 --> 00:19:25,235
We're about 10, 11 months in.

580
00:19:25,135 --> 00:19:26,980
And I can tell you, social media
works.

581
00:19:26,980 --> 00:19:29,440
I can tell you that for a fact.

582
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:30,563
Social media works.

583
00:19:30,563 --> 00:19:32,971
It does everything people are
telling you it does.

584
00:19:32,971 --> 00:19:33,078
now.

585
00:19:33,078 --> 00:19:35,309
But now it's just a part of the

586
00:19:35,309 --> 00:19:35,698
business.

587
00:19:35,698 --> 00:19:37,581
And I cannot imagine me doing what

588
00:19:37,581 --> 00:19:38,750
I do without social media.

589
00:19:38,750 --> 00:19:41,595
And I could not imagine going to

590
00:19:41,595 --> 00:19:47,673
be a mortgage broker now without
social, without a strong content

591
00:19:47,566 --> 00:19:49,630
game, right?
I have relationships.

592
00:19:49,630 --> 00:19:54,227
I have relationships with certain
people.

593
00:19:54,059 --> 00:19:54,440
Those relationships don't put
money in my bank out content and

594
00:19:54,330 --> 00:19:58,140
telling a story and having a good
offer does.

595
00:19:59,560 --> 00:19:59,580
It does.

596
00:19:59,566 --> 00:19:59,580
This works, kids.

597
00:19:59,573 --> 00:19:59,580
Right?
The content.

598
00:20:00,380 --> 00:20:00,420
So you have choices to make.

599
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:01,797
We all have choices to make,

600
00:20:01,821 --> 00:20:02,489
right?
We are where we are because of

601
00:20:02,314 --> 00:20:03,000
choices we made at some point in
time.

602
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,739
And so I just wanted to put this
out in front of you with some

603
00:20:06,739 --> 00:20:09,090
examples, right?
And just my thoughts on this, why

604
00:20:09,090 --> 00:20:10,419
content is king over
relationships.

605
00:20:10,319 --> 00:20:13,187
And hopefully that reframes how
you think about things.

606
00:20:13,187 --> 00:20:17,352
The cool part is building
relationships takes a lot of time.

607
00:20:17,352 --> 00:20:18,087
Content doesn't.

608
00:20:18,087 --> 00:20:20,486
Building relationships can work.

609
00:20:20,386 --> 00:20:20,754
Yeah, 100%.

610
00:20:20,754 --> 00:20:23,144
But there's pros and cons to

611
00:20:23,144 --> 00:20:24,720
everything, right?
a combination?

612
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:25,020
Absolutely.

613
00:20:25,100 --> 00:20:27,445
I just see way too many people

614
00:20:27,445 --> 00:20:29,860
focusing on relationships and
we're not in a relationship world.

615
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:33,740
As sad as it is to say that, it's
very sad to say that actually.

616
00:20:33,740 --> 00:20:38,265
We're not there and we're trending
even more out of it.

617
00:20:38,265 --> 00:20:38,930
We're attention.

618
00:20:38,930 --> 00:20:42,606
You have a kick ass social media

619
00:20:42,606 --> 00:20:51,660
game will get you attention, which
will get opportunities for you for

620
00:20:51,660 --> 00:20:54,060
applications to then close and put
them on your bank account.

621
00:20:54,060 --> 00:20:55,680
Your relationships will only get
you so far.

622
00:20:55,780 --> 00:20:58,675
Only so far with a lot of work, a
lot of effort, right?

623
00:20:58,675 --> 00:21:00,185
That's where we're going.

624
00:21:00,185 --> 00:21:02,317
So it is what it is.

625
00:21:02,317 --> 00:21:08,957
I sound sad about that, but I'm
winning on the content side.

626
00:21:08,957 --> 00:21:14,519
So I'm like, ah, it's pretty good
over here too.

627
00:21:14,519 --> 00:21:15,459
Like it's pretty good.

628
00:21:15,459 --> 00:21:17,850
And here's the cool part.

629
00:21:17,950 --> 00:21:21,171
I'll leave it on this and then
we're done.

630
00:21:21,171 --> 00:21:23,059
Relationships come out of the
content.

631
00:21:22,959 --> 00:21:26,652
You putting this content out will
open up doors a lot quicker with

632
00:21:26,652 --> 00:21:29,256
the opportunity for relationships
to impact your business with those

633
00:21:29,356 --> 00:21:31,190
referral partners, with other
people, with people joining your

634
00:21:31,190 --> 00:21:31,860
team, with whoever.

635
00:21:31,860 --> 00:21:34,193
Relationships come out of the

636
00:21:34,293 --> 00:21:37,044
content because you have
attention.

637
00:21:37,044 --> 00:21:40,544
Content doesn't come out of
relationships, right?

638
00:21:40,544 --> 00:21:42,720
The content drives everything.

639
00:21:42,620 --> 00:21:44,125
It's a big umbrella over

640
00:21:44,125 --> 00:21:45,873
everything you're doing in your
mortgage business.

641
00:21:45,873 --> 00:21:49,308
And all the other stuff comes out
of it.

642
00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:54,068
Right?
So it's not like you're never

643
00:21:54,068 --> 00:21:56,530
going to have relationships again.

644
00:21:56,530 --> 00:21:58,526
You end up having them.

645
00:21:58,426 --> 00:22:02,920
So that's it, kids.

646
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,738
Wanted to put that out there.

647
00:22:04,738 --> 00:22:07,676
I'm going to want to make this one
specifically.

648
00:22:07,676 --> 00:22:09,778
I just didn't know how to frame
it.

649
00:22:09,778 --> 00:22:13,056
But hopefully that helps you think
a little differently or just get

650
00:22:12,956 --> 00:22:16,575
to understand what's banging
around in my coconut um enjoy your

651
00:22:16,675 --> 00:22:18,729
week that's it kids peace