April 18, 2024

242: Content is More Important Than Relationships

242: Content is More Important Than Relationships
242: Content is More Important Than Relationships
The Mortgage Game
242: Content is More Important Than Relationships

In this episode, I share why building digital real estate through content marketing is more beneficial than traditional relationship-building methods, and how it allows you to build trust with end consumers quicker and grow faster.

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that building a mortgage business,
a successful one, is like playing

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a game.

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There's winners, there's losers,

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there's certain things you try.

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Some of us are playing checkers

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while others are playing chess.

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I've had the ability to coach and

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mentor hundreds of mortgage
brokers.

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I myself built a very nice
business.

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So now I want to distill all that
information, all the things I've

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learned from that and bring it
directly to you in a simple to

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understand way.

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I hope you enjoy.

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right, welcome to the Mortgage
Game Podcast.

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West Coast Wiley in the house.

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Oh So I hold strong opinions

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You've heard that phrase I do good
common sense, man.

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loosely.

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before.

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good argument.

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I can be swayed to something else,

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right?
I don't have this all figured out,

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but there's certain things where
I'm like, nope, can't change my

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mind on that one.

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You can try, but it's not

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happening.

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I already know that.

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I already know there's certain
things.

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I'm like, nope, I don't believe
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It's not part of my belief system.

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This is one of more important in

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your business, relationships or
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What will allow you to have a
thriving mortgage business?

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You build awesome relationships or
awesome content.

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I'm here to tell you content,
content, content, content,

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content.

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Over and over again, a hundred

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times over, without a doubt, not
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It's like a baby fighting Mike
Tyson in the ring.

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Not even close.

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Now let me clarify some things

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here and then I'll back this up
with my reasoning.

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And this is hopefully the whole
thing here is to get you just

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thinking differently, right?
The world is moving fast.

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A lot of you listening here,
you're dinosaurs.

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You're dinosaurs in this business,
or at least in your marketing.

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And that's okay.

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And new people coming in, like you

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get it more.

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You're like the younger people

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coming in.

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You're like, yeah, that's, yeah,

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that makes sense.

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I mean, this is the world we're

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in.

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And then I'm watching my kids come

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up and I'm watching, you know,
kids a little older than them.

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And just like how everyone's, you
know, acting and what they're

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doing with their time and energy.

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And it's content, content,

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content, attention.

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People's attention is the number

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one currency in the world.

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It is.

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It's why you can be a TikToker or
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them.

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And you can be 14, make millions

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of dollars.

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It's not because you have good

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relationships, because you have
good content and then you get

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people content, and then you get
people's attention.

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And that's where the money is.

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And so my whole job, or my goal,

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my job goal with this podcast is
just to get you thinking

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differently.

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Get you going, yeah, right.

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You're Yeah, I need to put more
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time and energy over here.

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Now, when I say content is way

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more important than relationships
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Let me clarify, because some of
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mouth right now.

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I can't believe you're saying

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that.

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Relationships matter, Ryan.

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They matter.

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Yes, of course they do.

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Come on.

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I'm not talking about how happy

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you are.

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I'm not talking about the

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relationships you have with your
lenders.

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Those are very important with your
BDM, your BRM, your underwriters.

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I'm talking the front end stuff.

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The relationships you have to get

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leads for your business.

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Talking about that versus content.

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Not the relationships you have

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with your friends and family and
all that.

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I'm not talking about that.

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Okay.

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So let's just peel that out.

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There goes your whole argument.

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It's out the freaking window.

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I don't know.

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Or not.

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Right?

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And you carry on building your
relationships and having your

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business act as if you 2010.

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it's, know, And you can slowly

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just keep growing your business.

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Or you can focus on content and

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throw some gas on the fire.

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Right?

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And so here's my thoughts on this.

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You've got back in the day, let's

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just say I was going to jump you,
drop you in a city and I'm going

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to drop you in, let's say Calgary,
Alberta.

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You still live there by the way.

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Horrible hockey team.

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I liked the city though.

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15 years I lived there.

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So went to school there, high
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then dropped out not my jam went
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so you're learning stuff about me
so i drop you in calgary we have

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no friends or family or anything
no call no relationships nothing

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you just get dropped there with a
phone and a laptop it's like go

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crush mortgages put money in the
bank account uh 100 commission go

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okay well you go build
relationships and i'll go and you

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can't do both Crush mortgages, put
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commission, go.

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Okay, you go well, build

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relationships and you can't do
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In a perfect you get world, to do
both things.

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But we're not in a perfect world.

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A perfect you would call world,

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your freaking database four times
a year.

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Nobody does.

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That's a perfect way to run a

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mortgage business.

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On top of many other things, but

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that would be the thing to do.

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But we don't.

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So we're in a messy world.

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Life is messy.

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So, and we tend to take the path
of least resistance and we're lazy

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and enter excuse here.

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So I'm going to say you have to

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pick one content or relationships.

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So you go run out and you go knock

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on real estate office doors and
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And you go, I don't even know who
you would build relationships

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with, to be honest.

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I don't know where you would go

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and who you'd talk to.

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You go join B&I groups and you go

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to Toastmasters and you join the
Chamber of Commerce and you try to

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build relationships with centers
of influence and financial, you do

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that.

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And I'm going to go over here, and

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I'm going to create content, and
I'm going to put it on Facebook,

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Instagram, LinkedIn, just those
three, I'm going to do that.

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And I'm going to build, use that
same content for my email

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marketing, when I eventually get
email addresses from people,

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because I'm going to ask them for
email addresses through DMS.

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And I'm going to start contacting
people through I'm going to ask

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them for email addresses through
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social, And I'm going to start
contacting people through social.

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I'm going to start putting it out
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And I'm going to start DMing the
people who are interested and who

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are looking at my stuff.

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Who do you think is going to have

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a half million dollars in the bank
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That's not even close.

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It's going to be me with the

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content.

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You're going to be out there

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hobnobbing it, walking around,
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building these relationships for
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I have no idea.

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I actually don't even know what

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you're doing out there, to be
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Those other groups were, here's my
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You can go build a relationship
with a broker owner of a real

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estate brokerage.

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Hey, I have a hundred agents.

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Get to come in and chat.

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Great.

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That's awesome, Tom.

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I have a hundred agents get to

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come in and That's Tom.

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brokerage.

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Hey, chat.

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Great.

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awesome, I'm coming You come in.

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Boom.

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you in, you start present, talking
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Remember, Okay.

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or they're under someone at a

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brokerage.

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All you've gotten is they've given

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you a platform, a 15, 20 minute
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really even show up.

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It's more everyone else who's

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struggling shows up and they come
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And then you still have to go
build the relationships.

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Each of those people have their
own mortgage people.

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Just because Tom gave you a
platform doesn't mean agent ABCD

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under the brokerage or under the
team, right?

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If you have a team of five, I have
five agents.

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It doesn't mean they use you.

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They're not forced to use you.

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They can use whoever they want.

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They're empowered to go build

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their own relationships and their
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So you're no further along.

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And while you're doing that, I'm,

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as they say, sliding into the DMs.

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I'm coming over here.

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I've already green screened some
listings for you.

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I've already show you I'm going to
run a webinar showing you how to

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get business from your database.

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And I've already been talking to

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you with videos and voice memos
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We already have a relationship.

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And then they just happen to go in

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and listen to you talk for 20, 30
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And I've already got a
relationship built over here,

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right?
Just because you have a

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relationship with the mothership
does not equal money in your bank

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account.

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It just gives you a platform.

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What do you do with the platform?
Most brokers don't even know what

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to do with that platform.

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Same thing.

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If you're in a relationship with a
financial advisor, sure, they have

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certain clients and they, but
those clients still have to agree

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to work with you, right?
They still have to have a

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relationship with you.

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It's a referral, but it doesn't

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mean it's a done deal.

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Whereas I'm going to be marketing

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to the direct consumer through my
content directly, and I'm going to

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build up trust.

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They don't know you from a hole in

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the ground.

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They just said, their realtor said

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to talk to you.

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account, their financial advisor,

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who they trust.

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Sure, that's cool.

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Maybe not realtors as much, but
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That's fine.

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But they still have to meet you

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and trust and like build trust
with you.

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Well, I'm sleeping over here.

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My content's out there building up

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trust and awareness and grabbing
people's attention.

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And then when I put in certain
strategies in there, it's

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collecting email addresses for me.

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And this is building that up while

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I sleep.

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While you sleep, your

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relationships aren't doing you
anything.

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Hopefully there's like a, huh,
that's interesting.

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Yeah.

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Right.

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Hmm.

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Your time, the best bang for your

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buck highest and best use real
estate term we know that is not

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building relationships those
relationships only go so far you

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move no relationship that person
quits no relationship that person

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dies no relationship there's a
personality conflict no

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relationship something happens no
relationship.

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There's a personality conflict, no
relationship.

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Something happens, no
relationship.

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Content lives forever.

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It's digital real estate.

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You're building digital real
estate.

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And the cool part is if you know
what the hell you're doing, you

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get to take that digital real
estate and repurpose it into your

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email marketing and build a
machine there, which you hear me

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talk about all the time, which we
show people do in our

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accountability groups and inside
Strategy Hub, right?

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This podcast brought to so good.

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Starbucks today.

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Been making them at home lately.

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Nespresso.

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Nespresso.

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Starbucks.

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It's a weekend right now.

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Okay, so back to like content

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versus relationships.

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And so I see just so many people

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out there, you know, they're
getting dressed up, they're going

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out, they're belly to belly,
they're meeting people.

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That's fine.

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Sure.

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Can you build a business around
that?

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Sure.

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That's how it wasn't back in the

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that's how it was back Sure, in
the day.

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day.

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Absolutely.

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Absolutely.

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But it's 2024, But it's 2024,

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right?
Then it's going to be five years

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2025, from it's going now, to be
2030.

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That stuff's going away.

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It's not as important as you

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think.

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It's not.

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It's not.

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It's not.

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It's not.

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You having a kick-ass Instagram

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page that engages people, that
shows you your personality and you

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as an expert and gives them
opportunity and you're asking them

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if they need help, that will
outperform any relationship you

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have on the lead gen side.

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100%.

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Remember, I'm not talking about
lenders, BDMs behind.

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Yeah, over here.

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Not talking about that.

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That's very important.

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Will be less important in the

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future if you've heard my other
podcasts, but we're not talking

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about That's that.

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very important.

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Will be less important in the If
future.

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you've heard my other podcasts,
but we're not talking about that

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right now.

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So you can go build these

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platforms and with putting all
your energy in there, or you can

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go and, you know, walk around and
shake hands and kiss babies and

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hold these events and do this and
do that.

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That's great.

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But highest and best use of your

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time is content.

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It always is.

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It's the leverage on top of
leverage.

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You get to leverage you sitting at
home, crushing out a 20 minute

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video, which is really two
minutes, but a bunch of takes,

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some scripting, some editing,
throwing that out to the universe,

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getting thousands of eyeballs on
it forever with calls to actions,

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and then just doing it again.

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And you get to do that from home

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or wherever you want.

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There's no better use of your 20

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minute, half hour.

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So I always talk about content

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days.

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I have a content day.

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Content day is like, it feeds your
business.

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It should feed your business.

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This should be the most important

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day of the month for you is your
content day.

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It's the lifeline of your
business.

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So if you have a content day,
let's just call it three hours.

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You have a three hour content day
where you're making your emails

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for your drip.

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You're making your videos for your

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platforms.

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You're making your static posts.

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You're making your, right.

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You're just doing all the stuff

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you're doing for your social and
your email marketing.

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There is no better.

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This is the part like I just, I

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want to say it 100 times in a row.

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I might just do that right now.

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I might just say it for 100 times.

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So you might want to just fast

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forward.

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There is no better use of your

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time for those three hours.

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There is no better use of your

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time for those three hours.

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There is no better.

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I'm not going to do it.

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I'm kidding.

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But you get the point.

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Like I want to hammer this home.

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And then a lot of you say, I don't
like content.

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I don't want, I don't know what
to, yeah, we'll figure it out.

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Figure it out.

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You have to figure it out or you

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die.

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You have to evolve your business

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or you die.

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Or you just have less money in the

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bank account.

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Maybe you don't die, but it's a

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painful death.

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It's like death by a thousand

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paper cuts.

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The goal is to make money.

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And I get it.

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We're changing lives and we're

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helping.

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And I get all that.

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But you didn't get into this
business for that.

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You got into it because you
thought, hey, I can go make a

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bunch of money and have a good
work-life balance, which is funny

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to say that because a lot of us
don't.

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And, you know, live a good life
and blah, blah, blah, and have

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some freedom and be my own boss
and all that stuff.

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But without the money, there's no
anything.

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And the byproduct is you're
helping people.

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So let's just own it.

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Let's say I want to make money.

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The byproduct is you're helping
people.

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So let's just own it.

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Let's say I want to make money.

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The byproduct is I help a lot of
people.

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Cool.

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Awesome.

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Warm hugs for everybody.

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But it's money, right?

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The money which helps you, your
family, buy better food, healthier

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food, get private health care, go
on better vacations, go on more

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vacations, right?
Impact the quality of your life

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and those around you, help out
family members and friends who

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need help, help out other people
who need help.

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It all stems off of money, right?
So please, let's not, I'm not this

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evil money person, by the way.

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I'm like, I share a lot of stuff.

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I give back a lot of stuff.

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I'm not like money.

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I wake up in money, money, money,
money, money, money.

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That's not me.

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That's the farthest thing from me.

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If you know me, I don't spend
money on fancy things.

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That's not to show off.

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That's not my jam.

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I don't do that.

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But I'm just trying to get across

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the point to you that money is
very important.

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Like it's not an evil thing.

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The people who think it's evil are

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typically the people who don't
have it.

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That's so true.

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Because I used to not have money.

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And I was like, I don't need money
to be happy.

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And you get money and you're like,
oh, this is better.

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I like this.

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This is way better.

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I can still, I'm still a good
person.

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I can help more people with money.

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So back to why we're doing this,

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doing it to earn money.

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And so your business needs the

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content to thrive.

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Back in the day, there was no

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social media, or if there was, it
was very minimal.

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I can't even remember.

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This podcast is brought to And

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Americano again.

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Okay.

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So, but back in the day, it was,
there wasn't social.

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So yeah, relationships did matter.

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It was, but it was the same old

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school thing.

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Go make relationships with the

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owner of a real estate shop.

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Try to get in.

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Try to get access to agents.

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Try to get in.

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Try to maybe get a contract
somewhere with a moving company or

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something, try to get in with
builders and developers, and then

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try to get relationships with
center of influences and get...

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Sure.

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But this is the point everyone's

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missing.

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go and make those relationships.

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You still...

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The end user is the one who's

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going to use you.

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The end, the consumer, it's the

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person who's agreeing to work with
you and how you get paid your

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$5,000 for your file.

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So just because you have

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relationship with the mothership,
the team lead, the broker owner,

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the FA, the whoever, whoever,
whoever, does not mean the end

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user uses you, right?
So now you're going out and

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building all these relationships
so that you get introductions, so

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then you can go build
relationships user.

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Why not just skip that part?
Why not skip the middle man, the

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refer, and go right to the end
person and build up the trust

491
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there right away that you're going
to have to do anyways.

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You're going to have to build that
at some point.

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Why not do that with your content?
And you're like, why don't I do

494
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both right?
Yeah, I get it.

495
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We're not talking about that
because everyone has a plan like

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that.

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I'm going to do social.

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I'm going to do that.

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And I'm going to have, I'm going

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to be in iGroups.

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I'm there.

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And I'm going to prospect through
DMs.

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I'm going to call.

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Yeah, no one does anything.

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They don't.

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99% of us do like very little of

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that.

508
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Right?

509
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So I'm going, what's the thing you
can focus on the most that'll have

510
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the quickest amount of impact on
your business and long-term,

511
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short-term, long-term, and put
money in your bank account.

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It's a lot more the people who are
on social and you go look at their

513
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stuff and you see their posts and
you see they're engaged and you

514
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say, do you think they're doing if
they weren't a mortgage broker,

515
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they would be doing all that
stuff?

516
00:17:09,904 --> 00:17:12,180
Like if they didn't have some,
like, let's just say they won the

517
00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,538
lottery and they said, I'm done
being a mortgage broker now.

518
00:17:14,637 --> 00:17:16,164
Do you think they would still be
posting?

519
00:17:16,164 --> 00:17:17,727
It wouldn't be talking about
mortgages.

520
00:17:17,727 --> 00:17:19,694
Do you think they'd still be
posting all the stuff and sharing

521
00:17:19,694 --> 00:17:21,248
things?
Hell no. Most people wouldn't,

522
00:17:21,248 --> 00:17:22,295
right?
They're doing it because it works.

523
00:17:22,295 --> 00:17:23,277
I always go to that.

524
00:17:23,277 --> 00:17:24,155
Like the blueprint's laying in

525
00:17:24,155 --> 00:17:25,085
front of all of us.

526
00:17:25,085 --> 00:17:25,653
Ah, it doesn't work.

527
00:17:25,752 --> 00:17:28,285
There are people on social media
in the mortgage industry where

528
00:17:28,185 --> 00:17:29,942
majority of their business comes
from social media.

529
00:17:29,942 --> 00:17:32,126
And that's why they continue to do
it.

530
00:17:32,126 --> 00:17:37,036
If you see someone that has been
at this for over a year, they are

531
00:17:37,036 --> 00:17:37,890
winning on social media.

532
00:17:37,890 --> 00:17:39,600
They've given you the blueprint.

533
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,556
It's right in front of you, plain
as day.

534
00:17:42,556 --> 00:17:47,964
What you don't see is what they're
doing on the back end through DMs.

535
00:17:51,198 --> 00:17:54,265
But what I am going to tell you is
that the good news is they're not

536
00:17:54,265 --> 00:17:54,781
doing a lot.

537
00:17:54,778 --> 00:17:55,804
I know this for a fact.

538
00:17:55,804 --> 00:18:02,007
Very, very small percentage of
people actually crush all the

539
00:18:02,007 --> 00:18:04,860
content and then have a strong DM
prospecting game.

540
00:18:04,860 --> 00:18:05,334
They don't.

541
00:18:05,334 --> 00:18:07,931
Or a strong email game.

542
00:18:07,931 --> 00:18:08,848
They don't.

543
00:18:08,848 --> 00:18:10,017
Big opportunity here.

544
00:18:10,017 --> 00:18:12,920
But from the front end, the
content drives everything.

545
00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:13,963
I'm living proof of this.

546
00:18:13,963 --> 00:18:16,378
A year ago, I had no social media.

547
00:18:16,378 --> 00:18:18,519
This podcast is brought to ago, I
had no social media.

548
00:18:18,519 --> 00:18:22,194
And I said, well, well i don't
like social but it's where my

549
00:18:22,194 --> 00:18:26,088
avatar my avatar mortgage brokers
you you listening hopefully you're

550
00:18:26,088 --> 00:18:29,705
a mortgage broker if you're not i
don't know why you're listening

551
00:18:29,705 --> 00:18:33,197
unless you're my family which i
still once again i don't know why

552
00:18:33,197 --> 00:18:36,330
you're listening uh i go that's
where my avatars are.

553
00:18:36,330 --> 00:18:38,280
They're hanging out on Instagram.

554
00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,762
They're listening to podcasts.

555
00:18:39,762 --> 00:18:41,400
They're in Facebook groups.

556
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,116
They're I'm going like, to go get

557
00:18:43,116 --> 00:18:44,988
their emails and mark to them
through there.

558
00:18:44,988 --> 00:18:45,768
They're on Facebook.

559
00:18:45,768 --> 00:18:46,704
They're on LinkedIn.

560
00:18:46,704 --> 00:18:49,540
Like this is where my avatar is.

561
00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:50,816
So I have to go there.

562
00:18:50,693 --> 00:18:52,058
I have to go where they are.

563
00:18:52,058 --> 00:18:54,240
If I like it or not, I have to go

564
00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:54,915
where they are.

565
00:18:54,915 --> 00:18:55,687
Same mentality for you.

566
00:18:55,687 --> 00:18:57,943
So I said, well, I'm going to go
all in on social.

567
00:18:57,943 --> 00:19:01,293
And I haven't even like went all
in, all in.

568
00:19:01,293 --> 00:19:02,706
I'm like all in.

569
00:19:02,706 --> 00:19:04,734
I still have other gears to get

570
00:19:04,734 --> 00:19:06,616
to, which we will get to.

571
00:19:06,516 --> 00:19:07,684
You'll see where there's other

572
00:19:07,684 --> 00:19:08,398
things coming.

573
00:19:08,298 --> 00:19:09,773
But I went there.

574
00:19:09,773 --> 00:19:11,665
I'm probably a year in, maybe even
less.

575
00:19:11,665 --> 00:19:13,192
10 months, 11 months.

576
00:19:13,192 --> 00:19:14,311
Actually, we're not even.

577
00:19:14,211 --> 00:19:16,022
I think we started in May last
year.

578
00:19:16,122 --> 00:19:18,547
So we're coming up on it.

579
00:19:23,544 --> 00:19:25,235
We're about 10, 11 months in.

580
00:19:25,135 --> 00:19:26,980
And I can tell you, social media
works.

581
00:19:26,980 --> 00:19:29,440
I can tell you that for a fact.

582
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:30,563
Social media works.

583
00:19:30,563 --> 00:19:32,971
It does everything people are
telling you it does.

584
00:19:32,971 --> 00:19:33,078
now.

585
00:19:33,078 --> 00:19:35,309
But now it's just a part of the

586
00:19:35,309 --> 00:19:35,698
business.

587
00:19:35,698 --> 00:19:37,581
And I cannot imagine me doing what

588
00:19:37,581 --> 00:19:38,750
I do without social media.

589
00:19:38,750 --> 00:19:41,595
And I could not imagine going to

590
00:19:41,595 --> 00:19:47,673
be a mortgage broker now without
social, without a strong content

591
00:19:47,566 --> 00:19:49,630
game, right?
I have relationships.

592
00:19:49,630 --> 00:19:54,227
I have relationships with certain
people.

593
00:19:54,059 --> 00:19:54,440
Those relationships don't put
money in my bank out content and

594
00:19:54,330 --> 00:19:58,140
telling a story and having a good
offer does.

595
00:19:59,560 --> 00:19:59,580
It does.

596
00:19:59,566 --> 00:19:59,580
This works, kids.

597
00:19:59,573 --> 00:19:59,580
Right?
The content.

598
00:20:00,380 --> 00:20:00,420
So you have choices to make.

599
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:01,797
We all have choices to make,

600
00:20:01,821 --> 00:20:02,489
right?
We are where we are because of

601
00:20:02,314 --> 00:20:03,000
choices we made at some point in
time.

602
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,739
And so I just wanted to put this
out in front of you with some

603
00:20:06,739 --> 00:20:09,090
examples, right?
And just my thoughts on this, why

604
00:20:09,090 --> 00:20:10,419
content is king over
relationships.

605
00:20:10,319 --> 00:20:13,187
And hopefully that reframes how
you think about things.

606
00:20:13,187 --> 00:20:17,352
The cool part is building
relationships takes a lot of time.

607
00:20:17,352 --> 00:20:18,087
Content doesn't.

608
00:20:18,087 --> 00:20:20,486
Building relationships can work.

609
00:20:20,386 --> 00:20:20,754
Yeah, 100%.

610
00:20:20,754 --> 00:20:23,144
But there's pros and cons to

611
00:20:23,144 --> 00:20:24,720
everything, right?
a combination?

612
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:25,020
Absolutely.

613
00:20:25,100 --> 00:20:27,445
I just see way too many people

614
00:20:27,445 --> 00:20:29,860
focusing on relationships and
we're not in a relationship world.

615
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:33,740
As sad as it is to say that, it's
very sad to say that actually.

616
00:20:33,740 --> 00:20:38,265
We're not there and we're trending
even more out of it.

617
00:20:38,265 --> 00:20:38,930
We're attention.

618
00:20:38,930 --> 00:20:42,606
You have a kick ass social media

619
00:20:42,606 --> 00:20:51,660
game will get you attention, which
will get opportunities for you for

620
00:20:51,660 --> 00:20:54,060
applications to then close and put
them on your bank account.

621
00:20:54,060 --> 00:20:55,680
Your relationships will only get
you so far.

622
00:20:55,780 --> 00:20:58,675
Only so far with a lot of work, a
lot of effort, right?

623
00:20:58,675 --> 00:21:00,185
That's where we're going.

624
00:21:00,185 --> 00:21:02,317
So it is what it is.

625
00:21:02,317 --> 00:21:08,957
I sound sad about that, but I'm
winning on the content side.

626
00:21:08,957 --> 00:21:14,519
So I'm like, ah, it's pretty good
over here too.

627
00:21:14,519 --> 00:21:15,459
Like it's pretty good.

628
00:21:15,459 --> 00:21:17,850
And here's the cool part.

629
00:21:17,950 --> 00:21:21,171
I'll leave it on this and then
we're done.

630
00:21:21,171 --> 00:21:23,059
Relationships come out of the
content.

631
00:21:22,959 --> 00:21:26,652
You putting this content out will
open up doors a lot quicker with

632
00:21:26,652 --> 00:21:29,256
the opportunity for relationships
to impact your business with those

633
00:21:29,356 --> 00:21:31,190
referral partners, with other
people, with people joining your

634
00:21:31,190 --> 00:21:31,860
team, with whoever.

635
00:21:31,860 --> 00:21:34,193
Relationships come out of the

636
00:21:34,293 --> 00:21:37,044
content because you have
attention.

637
00:21:37,044 --> 00:21:40,544
Content doesn't come out of
relationships, right?

638
00:21:40,544 --> 00:21:42,720
The content drives everything.

639
00:21:42,620 --> 00:21:44,125
It's a big umbrella over

640
00:21:44,125 --> 00:21:45,873
everything you're doing in your
mortgage business.

641
00:21:45,873 --> 00:21:49,308
And all the other stuff comes out
of it.

642
00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:54,068
Right?
So it's not like you're never

643
00:21:54,068 --> 00:21:56,530
going to have relationships again.

644
00:21:56,530 --> 00:21:58,526
You end up having them.

645
00:21:58,426 --> 00:22:02,920
So that's it, kids.

646
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,738
Wanted to put that out there.

647
00:22:04,738 --> 00:22:07,676
I'm going to want to make this one
specifically.

648
00:22:07,676 --> 00:22:09,778
I just didn't know how to frame
it.

649
00:22:09,778 --> 00:22:13,056
But hopefully that helps you think
a little differently or just get

650
00:22:12,956 --> 00:22:16,575
to understand what's banging
around in my coconut um enjoy your

651
00:22:16,675 --> 00:22:18,729
week that's it kids peace